Love Yourself More

All of us were born with perfect love.
However, somewhere along our journey, due to our wrong decisions and mistakes, we developed some voices in our head that result in decreased sense of self. Unconsciously, all the pains brought by failures, defeat and hurtful experiences become a factor in losing our self-esteem and confidence, thus prevent us from loving ourselves.

But come to think of it... how are we gonna give love if we cannot love ourselves? and how the people around us love us if in the first place we cannot love ourselves?

Filling yourself with so much love is very important so you will have healthy relationships. When you love yourself, you won't become needy and you don't rely your happiness according to the reactions and conditions of people around you.

Here are the 5 things you can do to love yourself more.

1. Commit to doing self care thing. 
Always make time to pamper yourself at least once a week.
Have a foot spa. Get a makeover to the salon. Get a massage. This is very helpful and powerful because you are reminding yourself that you are worth the time and effort. When you actually care for yourself, you are loving yourself.

2.  Believe in your worthiness. 

You are unique.
You are worthy.
You are kind.
You are loving.
and you deserve the perfect love in this world.

Appreciate your worth.  When you do this, it will be easier to appreciate the worth of others and you will have healthy and happy relationships.

3. Forgive yourself.
Ask forgiveness to the Lord for your mistakes. Forgive yourself and move on.
Don't forget that you are a human. Let go and Let God.

 4. Improve Yourself.
Be a better version of you everyday. Read books. Listen to inspirational stories. Get a mentor. Do all the things that you can to improve yourself. You will be amazed on how it would increase your self confidence.. and self love!

5. Spend time with the right people.
Be careful with the people you spend the most of your time with. Hang out with people who can inspire you, whose hearts are not filled with neediness but so much love.

This doesn't mean that you won't spend time with difficult and toxic people. You can get along with them but limit the time you will spend on them. We have a limited number of hours in a day and we should always be careful on how we will be using this time.

Please take time to watch the video below. It was made for women, but it applies to all human, regardless of gender, age and status.

Believe that You Are Amazing, You Are Awesome.




Be a better you everyday,
Maya