Don't Be a Complainer

Have you ever find yourself always complaining about the people in your life?

Are you an employee who repeatedly complain about the companies policies and your boss' biased opinions on promotions?

Do you complain during traffic?

Do you constantly find yourself complaining about the circumstances in your life?

If yes, you are an ultimate complainer.

Let me tell you something.

Complaining is not for the winners in life.

Don't get me wrong. I don't mean to totally ignore every negative feelings you have. It's fine to share your feelings with a close friend or family member. Allow yourself to vent every once in a while.

Being dissatisfied is normal and there's always a room for valid complaints. However, beware and make sure that complaining will not take over your life. It can destroy you and leave you without anything.

Does anything happen after you complain? I guess NONE.

Complaining is useless.
There are bad things in our lives that we can't avoid from happening. But our experience through these bad things depends on how we respond to it. It's just a matter of choice.

People who complain will get more of what they're complaining about. It's a law of attraction. It's how life works. Complainers create the problems and miseries they will experience. The moment they think about it, they materialize it.

Instead of complaining...

Change the way you think. Change your perspective about life. God gave our lives to enjoy.
Make a list of things to be thankful for- there are a lot! Focus on these things.
Love the things you possess and love the people in your life.
Surrender to God your uncontrollable circumstances and frustrations.

Make a decision now.
Don't be a complainer.

“Complaining does not work as a strategy. We all have finite time and energy. Any time we spend whining is unlikely to help us achieve our goals. And it won't make us happier.”

- Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture

Be a better you everyday,
Maya