"Most people do not listen with the intent to understand, they listen with the intent to reply"
- Stephen Covey
Listening is very significant to every relationship.
Without listening, there's no communication.
When was the last time you found someone who display a genuine interest in what you want to share?
How did you feel?
We feel loved, valued, and significant when someone pays attention to what we are saying.
So the next time you encounter someone who want to share something with you, focus on what he's trying to say. Have a burning desire to understand his insights. As much as you can, refrain from thinking about how to respond so you can focus more on his concerns. In addition, do not judge the person based on what he is sharing. Always remember that the purpose of listening is to UNDERSTAND. Do not try to give advice if the person is not asking for it. Just listen and understand.
“We have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more than we say.”
― Zeno of Citium
Be a better you,
Maya

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